Tips Jadi Partner Yg Baik for everyone

Acknowledgement: This is taken from Invoke.sg.. It reflects well on how to become a better "partner" : )

Tips Jadi Partner Yg Baik for everyone

*Snippet untukmu, untukku dan sekelian yang menghargai cinta*
Mcm mana ye nak jadi pasangan yg lebih baik?Of coz bila kita pernah putus cinta, kita akn tertanya2 mana silapnya dan always kita dpt spot kesilapan pasangan kita...Truely, paling susah nak spot is kekurangan kita sendiri. Well peeps, let us reflect...remember, love is beautiful and u gotta respect love like u respect urself ;)

Tips for all who respect relationships ;)

1. Menguatkan Iman

Well peeps, takde agama pon yg nak ajar pengikutnya jadi jahat..elemen agama ni amat penting dlm r'ship. Islam sendiri dah ajar mcm mana nak respect semua org..termasuk hormat pasangan masing2. so dgn adanya ilmu agama dan iman yg teguh, i'allah, gerenti aman ur r'ship.

2. Yakin diri dan jangan terkenang kisah lalu

Be confident. Mesti terus maju, fikiran positif. Jadikan kisah gagal sbg satu pengajaran bukan sbg kayu ukur diri. Coz, org yg konfiden sebenarnya dapat menanamkan semangat pd pasangan utk sama2 lalui detik susah dan senang bersama! cewah!!

3. Saat Romantis

Of coz lah dlm r'ship ada up & down. So bila tgh down tu, pls pls pls, kenangkan semula zaman courtship..zaman mula2 nervous bertemu..saat kita ghairah ucap I LOVE U n I MISS U..saat kita amat menghargai pasangan kita..saat dua2 senyum dan mata bertemu!! *terharu babe* Jadikan tu kenangan sbg sandaran utk u terus menghargai pasangan u

4. No to One-Sided Pls

Ingat, dun ever do sesuatu just to please our partner alone. Rmmbr, dlm r'ship, perlukan 2 pihak. Bahagia bersama..susah bersama..itu baru syiok babe! baru adventurous! Klw ada bende yg tak suka, bincang..kalau ada benda yg di suka pon, kene bincang ;) so sama2 leh kongsi interest masing2 dan memahami budi pekerti masing2....oryt? Never walk alone!

5. "Nasihatilah Daku"

Always pesan antara satu sama lain, utk saling nasihat menasihati. Ingat. tonasi yg lembut tika nasihat boleh kasi ur pasangan cair babe! I'allah dgn nasihat yg ada, mampu jadikan kita lebih baik dr sblmnya.

6. Jgn rendahkan pasangan anda

Ingat, takde manusia ni perfect. Abadikan akhlaknya, budi pekertinya, org kata inner beauty! Kalaupun ur pasangan tak sejambu siti nurhaliza, tak sehensem taufik batisah, terima lah dia seadanya. Krn kecantikan luaran, tak kekal. Budi dan sikap positif tu lah yg sebenarnya akn dibawa ke mati. Faham? and always, berikan galakan dan semangat pada pasangan anda. rmmbr, a simple thing u do, means a lot to ur partner ;)

7. Janji

Well peeps, jgn kita janji sesuatu kalau kita rasa kita tak mampu nak tunaikan atau ia luar kadar kemampuan kita. Once ur promise is broken, its considered sold! haha u sold her/his trust away! surely u all tak nak kan??? so jaga dat trust aite!

8. Sentiasa di sisi

Usahakan utk bersama pasangan anda...rmmbr, u choose him/her to be ur lovely partner ryt? so cherish him/her...jgn lah buat tak amek kisah. Sadis babe! Manusia tu ada perasaan hendak dihargai..

9. Komunikasi; tunjang segala keutuhan!

Ada prob, diskus. Ada cadangan, diskus. Ada plan, diskus. Apa2 pun diskus lah...and the best, diskus secara 4 mata...sampai maksud ;)

10. No harsh harsh pls...

Avoid harshy stuffs kat ur partner. Control ur voiz bila marah...control ur action bila piss off...control whatever things that might be harsh bila u takde mood. Relax....chill....and luahkan pd pasangan anda kalau u ada prob..biar dia mengerti situasi anda..dan pendengar luahan pula, berikan lah dia galakan, semangat dan sokongan anda...ingat, jgn rendahkan dirinya :)

11. Hormati dia babe!

respect ur partner in any ways. jgnlah pulak u lebih respect kawan2 u dari u respect ur partner..dats bad!

12. JUJUR!!!!!

Ada niat nak kelentong? ada niat tipu? ada niat berahsia? lupakan aje babe...jgn skali2 u act mcm tu..coz tak syok kan klw in r'ship ada curiga. so, be frank to ur partner..sikap jujur..dan dgn cara tu, dia akn hargai anda dan hargai ruang peribadi anda. bersikap terbuka dan memahami kunci bahagia!! so jujur ya!

Akhir Kata: Jangan salahkan Takdir kalau diri belum berusaha! so apa tunggu lagi?? work this out k...

THE TWO TOWERS

Anyway, as the name is rather misleading, it has nothing to do with the actual movie nor the story, but the elements in the story does play a part in my predicament.

The amount of preparatory works to the specific task is tremendous. The budget of the task is however minimal and rather squeezy. Timeline is rushed. I am not sure if the work can be really managed.. I am in serious doubts.. But I pray to the All-Mighty , may HE guide me through this difficult task.. (and thankful to my dearie who will always lend her support for me.. *wink* ;)

I am also having some other matters at hand such as my SKOOL project (wah, so many project, aiyoh) and also another project codename: WEDDING.. and my definition of a project is... plan, revised, discuss, negotiate, agree, perform, review, improve and complete. Wah, almost complete one master plan like tat, work on paper looks simple but actual work is headache.. but in any work we do, we must put in effort so tat the work we do can really work (sorry for the pun).. and we will reap the benefits from it, may God-willing (insyaAllah).. Amin.. :)

reservist and etc

Never update this blog for very long.. dunno wat to write also.. anyway, had done my reservist for the past two weeks.. a lot of new police procedures are required now.. leceh seh.. police pun byk paper work.. haiz

anyway, wat struck me during my reservist was that i attended a family dispute involving a maly family.. yeah.. its saddening to know that there are a lot of family disputes nowadays.. was is worse is that the wife has a PPO (Police Protection Order) that can call for police assistance as long as she feels threatened by the husband.. well.. it was rather a sad story as much as we had advised the husband to move away and settle it another day, he refused and the wife wanted to pursue the matter.. well.. no choice.. the IO had no choice but to instruct as to follow court order.. We arrested the husband.. by this time, the husband was crying.. but we can't take sympathy.. we have to carry out our duties without fear or fervour.. and with impartiality..


Well.. to cut the story short, the husband was taken back to station. then the whole family came down after the IO called. after the husband was put inside the holding room.. i went back..and that make me set thinking and wondering.. why?

like wat malay people say.. buat ni sebagai pengajaran.. treat ur wife with care and love..

Company's DnD 2007

Ah, yesterday went to my company's DnD.. 5th May 2007.. well, the theme was Survivor.. so the get-up dress was well.. survivor style with bermudas, or khakis.. but nope.. did not follow the dress-code.. yeah.. too much of a hassle..

Anyway, went there in all blacks.. yup, from my shoes, my socks, my pants, my shirt, my hair, even my eye colour though I wore contacts.. haha.. yeah, yeah.. anyway i am dark skinned anyway.. so u can's spot me during the nite..

But.. tat didn't stop my engineer to spot me right away when I went to the guy's restroom.. darn.. at all places.. and he asked me about werk stuff.. argh.. we are at DnD.. not at office..

Anyway.. been a good nite.. wasn't tat fanstastic anyway.. the food was so-so.. could be better.. yeah... but anyway, i think for next year, maybe I skipped the DnD.. not much fun after all this while.. couldn't even win a decent prize.. arrghh.. PSP, Xbox 360, PS3.. all never win..

Hmm.. maybe should just buy rather than wait for luck.. but.. need tat money for the most important and significant event of my life next year.. hmm.. 1 more year to go and tats fast.. Yikes..

Exams coming..

Ah, yes, the dreaded word, exams.. how did i have the time to blog when the exams are near and dun seem to find time when there aren't any.. simple.. I AM STRESSed.. and blogging helps to ease the stress.. haha.. right.. anyway, need to remember all the formula by Thursday..

Anyway, to help my frens and dearie, below is my exams timetable, complete with seat numbers and venue (to prevent any misuse, the seat number are X) Yes, dun u just love it, u can't choose your favourite seat and u can't bring in the popcorn.. the show is starring on how u cope with exams.. its NOT like going for the movies.. watever.. I am talking crap..

Day Date Time Subject Venue Seat Number
Thursday 19 Apr 07 1pm EE3001 Hall D 2X5
Tuesday 24 Apr 07 1pm EE3017 Hall D 3X6
Monday 30 Apr 07 9am EE3012 Hall B 7X6

Ok.. so tat is the exams timetable.. my study schedule.. lets just say I have to catch up A LOT.. but hopefully I grab the time whenever i can.. starting tomorrow, full steam ahead..

Wish me luck..

hectic..

Wow.. been a long time never post liao.. anyway.. since I am at my blogpage.. just wanted to wish my dearie a belated happy bdae.. hope u really like my prezzie yeah..

How are things with my life? just one word.. hectic.. been running up and down from office to site to get the project done on schedule.. haiz.. and skool test week is just over.. tat is a relief.. phew.. anyway.. need to up my efforts for the coming exams..

i am also worried about up and coming event in one year + time.. need to discuss a LOT of things wif dearie too.. since she is now on shift due to the e-filing.. I can only meet up with her if she is not working on weekends.. which is coming in another 2 weeks time.. hopefully, we can just sit down and talk things out.. have to sort things out.. also have to sort out the nitty gritty stuff with our parents too.. well.. as for now.. i concentrate on my project and skool.. after the project settle down.. skool exams over.. then i concentrate on these other things..

wish me luck people.. :)

Urggh.. sick..sore throat, fever and flu..

Recovering from sore throat, fever and flu, today I am feeling much better.. though I am still finding it difficult to eat and swallowing my own saliva hurts.. I hope to recover soon enuff so tat I can meet dearie in a pink of health.. well.. I have to confirm some details with her tomorrow.. Not sure if I can finish my skool stuff tat I wanted to do by tmrw.. and not forgetting the dreaded office work..

argh.. I think I better rest soon.. my throat still hurts..